Essex is one of the most densely populated counties in Britain. It is also one of the most active counties for swinger parties and adult dating fun. Nearly 1.8 million people live in Essex and there is an average population of 1200 people to the square mile. This is the kind of statistic that should be music to the ears of any single or couple looking for an abundance of adult fun contacts and parties.There are many areas of Essex that can be described as adult dating hot-spots. The area of the county town of Chelmsford has always been one of them, with many adult party venues flourishing there over the years. The Romford area is another, having at least three regular venues at the time of writing this article. Even the villages of Essex have hosted more than their fair share of swinger parties over the years and all of the major ones provide plenty of dating activity most of the time.The close proximity of Essex to London is another factor in making the county such a good one for adult fun seekers to live in. Practically all of the big London clubs and party venues are less than hour away.It is only possible to estimate how much swinging goes on in Essex by looking at counting the numbers of contact adverts showing for the county on leading swinger and dating clubs. One of the most popular adult dating and swinger clubs, has a successful postal and non-internet division whose numbers of members I also took into account.Quite a few singles and couples sign up with three or four of the larger adult dating sites at the same time. This was allowed for when calculating the total number of people on the adult dating scene for the county.According to this method of reckoning, my educated guess of the numbers of swingers / adult dating site users active in adult dating in the county is somewhere in the region of 1800. This is composed of 45% couples, 30% single males and25% single femalesThese figures should inspire both singles and couples who would like to enjoy adult dating in Essex, by confirming that the region offers some of the best opportunities anywhere in the U.K.In addition to the abundance of adult contacts, Essex also offers the established adult party club venues described above. Many more seasoned swingers however, consider that the most successful parties are more often than not those that take place in the homes of other swingers.The opening move to receiving invitations to these, privately hosted adult parties in Essex, is to join with a top adult dating club. Take some time and care to write your profile then start building a popular presence on the site. In order to achieve this, you’ll have to be fully geared up to spend a great deal of time and energy logged into the site getting involved in chat rooms and forums. There are a number of advice articles that are for both members and site visitors. The articles will help you acquire the secrets of creating an appealing online personality.
A friend of mine has started a Google AdWords campaign for his adult orientated website. Most of his keywords he thinks are adult, some of them performing very well, but some don’t trigger ads. In a comment he has found this: “adult classification is preventing your ad from showing …” He complains that the only adult words in his ads are ‘adult’ and ‘sex’. Still Google says “but the search query is not adult in nature”. My friend seems to be completely confused.The truth is that you are free to advertise adult contents on Google without difficulties provided that you have become familiar with a few restrictions and are ready to meet the requirements set by AdWords.With this article, however, I’d like to draw your attention to a common mistake which often causes frustration for adult content oriented account holders. The adult industry is regarded as a sensitive issue and if a specialist of AdWords finds that your keyword is not adult, it might be preventing your ad from displaying on the search result pages. E.g. an adult ad variation will not be triggered to show by a family-safe keyword such as “bookshelf”. Therefore adult site owners should only use keywords that clearly indicate interest in adult content. The point in the above is that your keywords are at the judgment of specialists, i.e. humans. I’ve heard rumors that one keyword was declined for an ad group while the very same keyword was approved for another ad group, evidently by another specialist. Whenever human judgement is involved you can never avoid such cases entirely.Therefore you are advised to use very univocal and unambiguous terms. E.g. many of us would think that the term “sex” relates to adult content because it may mean the genitalia or the instinct or attraction drawing one sex toward another etc. The specialist, however, may find that “sex” means either the male or female division of a species. In this case it is a purely scientific term and family-safe therefore he can rule to reject this keyword. The same refers, of course, to the term “rabbit”, “asses” etc. A “rabbit” might be any of several soft-furred, large-eared, rodentlike burrowing mammals allied with the hares while the term “ass” may refer to a long-eared, slow, patient, sure-footed domesticated mammal, Equus asinus, related to the horse, used chiefly as a beast of burden. To the utmost distress of many adult site advertisers such terms are in fact family-safe and not allowed to trigger adult ads. They should probably try to find 3-4 word unambiguous search queries.There has recently been gossip about Google replacing human judgement by mathematical algorithms for the purpose of deciding if a term is family-safe or not. However, this does not affect the contents of this article to a major extent.
While dating, women will make these 5 common mistakes to get a guy to like them. We may think that our actions will make the man want us when all it does is show our emotional immaturity and vulnerabilities.And it’s not that the guy will stop dating you but he is less likely to take you seriously or the relationship to the next level. He will see your actions as just a game to get what you want and likewise, he will play his own game.A real man will communicate his intentions to you and encourage you to be real with yours so that you both can move beyond any socially, defined gender role playing to just being oneself. And if you are unable to do that he will undoubtedly find a woman who can.Before you go out on that next online date with some guy you are hot for, try not making these 5 common mistakes most women will make while dating.· Being easy (having little or no physical or emotional boundaries)· Being his emotional rescuer (a lot of women seem to possess either an innate or conditioned desire to want to fix the men they attract)· Playing the victim (life is hard for almost everyone and you are no different)· Being too judgmental (this is a huge downer and is an indication of a much deeper uneasiness)· Dependency or Codependency (if you are unable to be an emotionally mature adult, dating is not something that you need to be doing)As you can see some of these mistakes will require some degree of constraint on your part to overcome. If you have always thrown yourself to every man you meet, trying to develop a new style of doing things will be challenging at first but when you recognize that what you have been doing up to this point is not working, the effort is well worth it. And if you’re doing online dating, taking things slower is necessary is you plan to really get to the know the other person.In fact, you should write down your intentions surrounding what it is you want and then plan out a strategy that will require you to be the best you. In no way do you need to fake your authenticity but rather you can allow the true you to emerge over the baggage that disguises you. This is the way to the freedom of being if you choose it.